False marital expectations
When establishing a home and family is often a big step for both partners because they will be experiencing changes and a lot of discoveries in their relationship as a couple. When people get married he or she will have to cut down with their expenses to give way to the obligations in the family. When you are still single you can afford to shop for new clothing and different kinds of body accessories. But when you get married you will enter into a deeper obligation. Before I used to collect American flags , flag case and different state flags, now that you are married you will be having limitations in spending your money. You will be considering saving for your future family. Many people experience a feeling of disenchantment is brought about by our tendency to misperceive the other person prior to marriage and our false marital expectations. We create in our minds a particular image of the spouse of our dreams, the kind of spouse we would like to have. Our spouse would fit into the mold we have created specially for him or her. We just need to accept the fact that when you enter into marriage, you need to be ready to accept that you will be having many responsibility in life.
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